SNOOPIN'

edited January 10 in General
More relationship crap often starts over his or hers cellphone. Men as well as women be snooping through each other's cell phone! Hell, some of ya'll be acting like you on da" Jerry Springer" or "Maury" Show in your own damn homes! From tryna catch da other cheating or talking to another not your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc. Often bedrooms, living rooms, etc. have become verbal or physical battlefields, etc. Becaused somebody QQ... snooped and saw that damn text you sent or received, etc. Here it comes... She's now pissed, "Who is this MF, Bi#*h, etc.! Who is she Tyrone!!! And you standing der like damn, "this woman done been thru my phone." While men do snoop too, most are slow da catch on, to dat shyt. Yeah, damn near all of you leave those tracks dat can be followed, etc. Them text's gets em' damn near err time. Just have two phones, one for da real life doings, and another for playa time. Ya feel me? Brutha's, "Git ya a playa time phone dat yo azz don't have da bring home!" QQ... LMGDAO!! Damn I hea my playa phone ringin' . Gfb gots da go.... later...

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  • A guy down the street from me would stroll up to my house to chit-chat all the time, he luv reminiencing about his hay-days.

    He said several years ago at the height of cellphones, he owned (2) phones, One phone was for his everyday use, the other phone was for his extracurricular activities. He kept his second phone locked down and would only use it when he was out & about, of course, he got careless and left __ #2 phone in his car and his wife was driving his car cause her's was in the shop. Brutha forgot about his secret phone and his wife found out, because one of his heffa's was calling him and the phone was locked in his glove compartment, wife had the keys, opened the glove-box and answered the ___ 'Overly Persistent' caller.

    Oh Shyt. LMAO
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    A guy down the street from me would stroll up to my house to chit-chat all the time, he luv reminiencing about his hay-days.

    He said several years ago at the height of cellphones, he owned (2) phones, One phone was for his everyday use, the other phone was for his extracurricular activities. He kept his second phone locked down and would only use it when he was out & about, of course, he got careless and left __ #2 phone in his car and his wife was driving his car cause her's was in the shop. Brutha forgot about his secret phone and his wife found out, because one of his heffa's was calling him and the phone was locked in his glove compartment, wife had the keys, opened the glove-box and answered the ___ 'Overly Persistent' caller.

    Oh Shyt. LMAO

    You kno there's always gon be some dude dat just don't git it! They never learn how da play da game! Hell turn da damn phone off! It's always been said that women are better at this game of extramarital affairs, etc. Oh well... it is what it is! Betcha you be eyeing yo man's phone too? Gfb rollin' ova hea!! gone....
  • A guy down the street from me would stroll up to my house to chit-chat all the time, he luv reminiencing about his hay-days.

    He said several years ago at the height of cellphones, he owned (2) phones, One phone was for his everyday use, the other phone was for his extracurricular activities. He kept his second phone locked down and would only use it when he was out & about, of course, he got careless and left __ #2 phone in his car and his wife was driving his car cause her's was in the shop. Brutha forgot about his secret phone and his wife found out, because one of his heffa's was calling him and the phone was locked in his glove compartment, wife had the keys, opened the glove-box and answered the ___ 'Overly Persistent' caller.

    Oh Shyt. LMAO

    You kno there's always gon be some dude dat just don't git it! They never learn how da play da game! Hell turn da damn phone off! It's always been said that women are better at this game of extramarital affairs, etc. Oh well... it is what it is! Betcha you be eyeing yo man's phone too? Gfb rollin' ova hea!! gone....

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    Nawl, I believe MOST men cheat, it doesn't surprise me when men get caught, as far as women being better at cheating, perhaps you're right, because, I don't hear of women getting caught at the game of cheating. :o Lol
  • A man damn near can't help cheating! After all, he's a visual QQ... creature, with a sack and a stick of burnt wood! When he sees a sexy female, he always gon want da re-ignite dat brunt wood! Ya feeling Gfb hea? These brutha's weak as hell out hea! LMAO... If he sees it, likes it, and it looks damn good to him, shyttt, he gon wanna tap it! Or should I have said, "tap into it." Man. look. life is what it Is,,," Men & Women gon always cheat as long as sex is in da equation. We are sexul creatures anyway! Gfb rollin'
  • A man can help it. It's called discipline. It's like saying a kid can't not eat candy. I'm not saying it's not candy and that men shouldn't ever want to. Women should understand that this wanting is purely sexual and not emotional. It's natural for men to want to have sex with other females. That's why lifestyle groups exist.
    The most natural reason for a couple to be sexually monogamous is to create a loving and stable home environment for children. Once this is accomplished or already destroyed by divorce or similar scenario, it doesn't have to be the same relationship where we lock each other down or have to feel like we own them and therefore get jealous when they give attention to someone else.
    Many animal species come together just to have children. Sometimes the male hangs around after they're born. Sometimes he doesn't. Is it right? I think it depends on the needs of the offspring in that species. If I'm doing my best to give my children what they need and I'm supportive even into their adult life then I've accomplished my goal as a parent. But as for men wanting to have sex with other women, that's natural.
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    A man can help it. It's called discipline. It's like saying a kid can't not eat candy. I'm not saying it's not candy and that men shouldn't ever want to. Women should understand that this wanting is purely sexual and not emotional. It's natural for men to want to have sex with other females. That's why lifestyle groups exist.
    The most natural reason for a couple to be sexually monogamous is to create a loving and stable home environment for children. Once this is accomplished or already destroyed by divorce or similar scenario, it doesn't have to be the same relationship where we lock each other down or have to feel like we own them and therefore get jealous when they give attention to someone else.
    Many animal species come together just to have children. Sometimes the male hangs around after they're born. Sometimes he doesn't. Is it right? I think it depends on the needs of the offspring in that species. If I'm doing my best to give my children what they need and I'm supportive even into their adult life then I've accomplished my goal as a parent. But as for men wanting to have sex with other women, that's natural.
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    Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    A man can help it. It's called discipline. It's like saying a kid can't not eat candy. I'm not saying it's not candy and that men shouldn't ever want to. Women should understand that this wanting is purely sexual and not emotional. It's natural for men to want to have sex with other females. That's why lifestyle groups exist.
    The most natural reason for a couple to be sexually monogamous is to create a loving and stable home environment for children. Once this is accomplished or already destroyed by divorce or similar scenario, it doesn't have to be the same relationship where we lock each other down or have to feel like we own them and therefore get jealous when they give attention to someone else.
    Many animal species come together just to have children. Sometimes the male hangs around after they're born. Sometimes he doesn't. Is it right? I think it depends on the needs of the offspring in that species. If I'm doing my best to give my children what they need and I'm supportive even into their adult life then I've accomplished my goal as a parent. But as for men wanting to have sex with other women, that's natural.
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    Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.

    I can see what was said, etc. But this ain't usually the way it goes down. Of course the man can be self disciplined, but usually he's not. Ya'll women got dat power of persuasion, which often works very well. btw. I knew you'd agree. QQ... I see all dat fine power you got... Gfb rollin' ova hea... gone...

  • Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.
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    I can see what was said, etc. But this ain't usually the way it goes down. Of course the man can be self disciplined, but usually he's not. Ya'll women got dat power of persuasion, which often works very well. btw. I knew you'd agree. QQ... I see all dat fine power you got... Gfb rollin' ova hea... gone...[/quote]

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    Gfb, I suspect you'd preferred a woman that showed discipline in her ways. I really can't see any man (that truly cares) for a woman, comfortable with her F'ing around with every dude that simply looks good or has some swagger about himself.
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    Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.
    This isn't about me though, it's about life goings on, it's realities, whit men and women are doing, etc.
    I can see what was said, etc. But this ain't usually the way it goes down. Of course the man can be self disciplined, but usually he's not. Ya'll women got dat power of persuasion, which often works very well. btw. I knew you'd agree. QQ... I see all dat fine power you got... Gfb rollin' ova hea... gone...[/quote]

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    Gfb, I suspect you'd preferred a woman that showed discipline in her ways. I really can't see any man (that truly cares) for a woman, comfortable with her F'ing around with every dude that simply looks good or has some swagger about himself.
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    Yet, this isn't about me, it' about what many folks are actually doing out here in this freaky azz world, just for sexual pleasure, etc. as a single man, in my view what a woman does, etc. is nothing new. there are many self disciplined men and women out hea! But then you got them freaks. and dems da one I wtite about! That shyt btw, just ain't shown in porn, etc. It's going on in many bedrooms, motel, rooms all ova this nation! And da tell da truth about it, there are some women just as you described, doing just what you would think they wouldn't be doing, It's real as hell out hea. This doesn't include err body! Gotta run...
  • Having discipline, for me, my opinion, is part of being a man vs a boy. And I don't mean this in a... typical basic ego type of way but rather looking at the chakra system. The root chakra... the starting point.. is basically "the child". A baby only knows its own wants and needs. As you grow you have to integrate the wants and needs of others until you reach to the point that your own wants fade away into the greater good; from individuality to collective consciousness.

    Being able to put your needs to the side is a skill that you can develop and master. It's just like with fasting. You discipline your body and by taking in less your mind is conditioned to work with less... or balance its consumption, vs. what happens when you constantly over eat and your stomach expands and your mind isn't triggered to feel full until you have eaten way too much.

    So I don't think its a product of being a man, but rather having an appetite that is potentially out of control.

    If a man cannot stop cheating he has a problem that cannot be blamed on his gender but rather his appetite. There are females with the same problem and is part (not all) of the reason words like slut and whore exist. But these are often exaggerations meant to shame women for not having appetite control over their sexuality because men don't want that. So why should women?

    As much as I talk about religion with no shame, the reason I can speak on it with total confidence is because I have something to replace it with. And it is one word.

    BALANCE.

    Most people are out of balance. They turn to many vices and devices to balance themselves. They turn to drugs, religion and spirituality, money, sex, food, exercise, meditation, people, etc. We vote politically to tweak the balance of power between republican and democratic ideologies.

    The problem when you blame something unnatural (unhealthy appetite) on something natural is you justify it to the point where you don't care who it hurts.

    If a man has a woman he should be able to rely on his discipline and self-control so that their relationship is in balance and they're not doing things to hurt each other. This may involve many compromises depending on the compatibility of the person they have chosen. His love for her should be all the motivation he needs to deny his own appetite. If I can fast from food I can fast, even from sex.

    There are "incels" out there who believe they have no choice but don't realize they just suck as humans beings and therefore they want women who don't want them back, instead of choosing women who are more compatible to who they can get and instead of actually having some charisma. But these dudes ain't getting laid at all. So compared to that, a dude who "can't help it" (which sounds like a rapist to me), would appear unnaturally greedy.
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    Having discipline, for me, my opinion, is part of being a man vs a boy. And I don't mean this in a... typical basic ego type of way but rather looking at the chakra system. The root chakra... the starting point.. is basically "the child". A baby only knows its own wants and needs. As you grow you have to integrate the wants and needs of others until you reach to the point that your own wants fade away into the greater good; from individuality to collective consciousness.

    Being able to put your needs to the side is a skill that you can develop and master. It's just like with fasting. You discipline your body and by taking in less your mind is conditioned to work with less... or balance its consumption, vs. what happens when you constantly over eat and your stomach expands and your mind isn't triggered to feel full until you have eaten way too much.

    So I don't think its a product of being a man, but rather having an appetite that is potentially out of control.

    If a man cannot stop cheating he has a problem that cannot be blamed on his gender but rather his appetite. There are females with the same problem and is part (not all) of the reason words like slut and whore exist. But these are often exaggerations meant to shame women for not having appetite control over their sexuality because men don't want that. So why should women?

    As much as I talk about religion with no shame, the reason I can speak on it with total confidence is because I have something to replace it with. And it is one word.

    BALANCE.

    Most people are out of balance. They turn to many vices and devices to balance themselves. They turn to drugs, religion and spirituality, money, sex, food, exercise, meditation, people, etc. We vote politically to tweak the balance of power between republican and democratic ideologies.

    The problem when you blame something unnatural (unhealthy appetite) on something natural is you justify it to the point where you don't care who it hurts.

    If a man has a woman he should be able to rely on his discipline and self-control so that their relationship is in balance and they're not doing things to hurt each other. This may involve many compromises depending on the compatibility of the person they have chosen. His love for her should be all the motivation he needs to deny his own appetite. If I can fast from food I can fast, even from sex.

    There are "incels" out there who believe they have no choice but don't realize they just suck as humans beings and therefore they want women who don't want them back, instead of choosing women who are more compatible to who they can get and instead of actually having some charisma. But these dudes ain't getting laid at all. So compared to that, a dude who "can't help it" (which sounds like a rapist to me), would appear unnaturally greedy.

    Choice words, Kemosabe. ^^^^^5!!! I'd never, ever get the chance to use them. Quick Draw Kat would have blasted my balls and joint up to the ceiling and through the roof...and then my head with it before or just before I bled-out. This I know, fo'sho. Just think of a chick from Puerto Rico, and an Apache on the warpath out for hair...and your sack...below. Hell YEAH I want my dick and balls, don'tchu wanna keep your own? Fuck yeah! I'm crazy, but not completely insane. Plus, I kinda like having some bass in my voice, and not squeaking like Tweety Bird like "help grammy help...help grammy...heeeeeelp!".
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