SNOOPIN'

edited January 10 in General
More relationship crap often starts over his or hers cellphone. Men as well as women be snooping through each other's cell phone! Hell, some of ya'll be acting like you on da" Jerry Springer" or "Maury" Show in your own damn homes! From tryna catch da other cheating or talking to another not your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc. Often bedrooms, living rooms, etc. have become verbal or physical battlefields, etc. Becaused somebody QQ... snooped and saw that damn text you sent or received, etc. Here it comes... She's now pissed, "Who is this MF, Bi#*h, etc.! Who is she Tyrone!!! And you standing der like damn, "this woman done been thru my phone." While men do snoop too, most are slow da catch on, to dat shyt. Yeah, damn near all of you leave those tracks dat can be followed, etc. Them text's gets em' damn near err time. Just have two phones, one for da real life doings, and another for playa time. Ya feel me? Brutha's, "Git ya a playa time phone dat yo azz don't have da bring home!" QQ... LMGDAO!! Damn I hea my playa phone ringin' . Gfb gots da go.... later...
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  • A guy down the street from me would stroll up to my house to chit-chat all the time, he luv reminiencing about his hay-days.

    He said several years ago at the height of cellphones, he owned (2) phones, One phone was for his everyday use, the other phone was for his extracurricular activities. He kept his second phone locked down and would only use it when he was out & about, of course, he got careless and left __ #2 phone in his car and his wife was driving his car cause her's was in the shop. Brutha forgot about his secret phone and his wife found out, because one of his heffa's was calling him and the phone was locked in his glove compartment, wife had the keys, opened the glove-box and answered the ___ 'Overly Persistent' caller.

    Oh Shyt. LMAO
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    A guy down the street from me would stroll up to my house to chit-chat all the time, he luv reminiencing about his hay-days.

    He said several years ago at the height of cellphones, he owned (2) phones, One phone was for his everyday use, the other phone was for his extracurricular activities. He kept his second phone locked down and would only use it when he was out & about, of course, he got careless and left __ #2 phone in his car and his wife was driving his car cause her's was in the shop. Brutha forgot about his secret phone and his wife found out, because one of his heffa's was calling him and the phone was locked in his glove compartment, wife had the keys, opened the glove-box and answered the ___ 'Overly Persistent' caller.

    Oh Shyt. LMAO

    You kno there's always gon be some dude dat just don't git it! They never learn how da play da game! Hell turn da damn phone off! It's always been said that women are better at this game of extramarital affairs, etc. Oh well... it is what it is! Betcha you be eyeing yo man's phone too? Gfb rollin' ova hea!! gone....
  • A guy down the street from me would stroll up to my house to chit-chat all the time, he luv reminiencing about his hay-days.

    He said several years ago at the height of cellphones, he owned (2) phones, One phone was for his everyday use, the other phone was for his extracurricular activities. He kept his second phone locked down and would only use it when he was out & about, of course, he got careless and left __ #2 phone in his car and his wife was driving his car cause her's was in the shop. Brutha forgot about his secret phone and his wife found out, because one of his heffa's was calling him and the phone was locked in his glove compartment, wife had the keys, opened the glove-box and answered the ___ 'Overly Persistent' caller.

    Oh Shyt. LMAO

    You kno there's always gon be some dude dat just don't git it! They never learn how da play da game! Hell turn da damn phone off! It's always been said that women are better at this game of extramarital affairs, etc. Oh well... it is what it is! Betcha you be eyeing yo man's phone too? Gfb rollin' ova hea!! gone....

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    Nawl, I believe MOST men cheat, it doesn't surprise me when men get caught, as far as women being better at cheating, perhaps you're right, because, I don't hear of women getting caught at the game of cheating. :o Lol
  • A man damn near can't help cheating! After all, he's a visual QQ... creature, with a sack and a stick of burnt wood! When he sees a sexy female, he always gon want da re-ignite dat brunt wood! Ya feeling Gfb hea? These brutha's weak as hell out hea! LMAO... If he sees it, likes it, and it looks damn good to him, shyttt, he gon wanna tap it! Or should I have said, "tap into it." Man. look. life is what it Is,,," Men & Women gon always cheat as long as sex is in da equation. We are sexul creatures anyway! Gfb rollin'
  • A man can help it. It's called discipline. It's like saying a kid can't not eat candy. I'm not saying it's not candy and that men shouldn't ever want to. Women should understand that this wanting is purely sexual and not emotional. It's natural for men to want to have sex with other females. That's why lifestyle groups exist.
    The most natural reason for a couple to be sexually monogamous is to create a loving and stable home environment for children. Once this is accomplished or already destroyed by divorce or similar scenario, it doesn't have to be the same relationship where we lock each other down or have to feel like we own them and therefore get jealous when they give attention to someone else.
    Many animal species come together just to have children. Sometimes the male hangs around after they're born. Sometimes he doesn't. Is it right? I think it depends on the needs of the offspring in that species. If I'm doing my best to give my children what they need and I'm supportive even into their adult life then I've accomplished my goal as a parent. But as for men wanting to have sex with other women, that's natural.
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    A man can help it. It's called discipline. It's like saying a kid can't not eat candy. I'm not saying it's not candy and that men shouldn't ever want to. Women should understand that this wanting is purely sexual and not emotional. It's natural for men to want to have sex with other females. That's why lifestyle groups exist.
    The most natural reason for a couple to be sexually monogamous is to create a loving and stable home environment for children. Once this is accomplished or already destroyed by divorce or similar scenario, it doesn't have to be the same relationship where we lock each other down or have to feel like we own them and therefore get jealous when they give attention to someone else.
    Many animal species come together just to have children. Sometimes the male hangs around after they're born. Sometimes he doesn't. Is it right? I think it depends on the needs of the offspring in that species. If I'm doing my best to give my children what they need and I'm supportive even into their adult life then I've accomplished my goal as a parent. But as for men wanting to have sex with other women, that's natural.
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    Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    A man can help it. It's called discipline. It's like saying a kid can't not eat candy. I'm not saying it's not candy and that men shouldn't ever want to. Women should understand that this wanting is purely sexual and not emotional. It's natural for men to want to have sex with other females. That's why lifestyle groups exist.
    The most natural reason for a couple to be sexually monogamous is to create a loving and stable home environment for children. Once this is accomplished or already destroyed by divorce or similar scenario, it doesn't have to be the same relationship where we lock each other down or have to feel like we own them and therefore get jealous when they give attention to someone else.
    Many animal species come together just to have children. Sometimes the male hangs around after they're born. Sometimes he doesn't. Is it right? I think it depends on the needs of the offspring in that species. If I'm doing my best to give my children what they need and I'm supportive even into their adult life then I've accomplished my goal as a parent. But as for men wanting to have sex with other women, that's natural.
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    Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.

    I can see what was said, etc. But this ain't usually the way it goes down. Of course the man can be self disciplined, but usually he's not. Ya'll women got dat power of persuasion, which often works very well. btw. I knew you'd agree. QQ... I see all dat fine power you got... Gfb rollin' ova hea... gone...

  • Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.
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    I can see what was said, etc. But this ain't usually the way it goes down. Of course the man can be self disciplined, but usually he's not. Ya'll women got dat power of persuasion, which often works very well. btw. I knew you'd agree. QQ... I see all dat fine power you got... Gfb rollin' ova hea... gone...[/quote]

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    Gfb, I suspect you'd preferred a woman that showed discipline in her ways. I really can't see any man (that truly cares) for a woman, comfortable with her F'ing around with every dude that simply looks good or has some swagger about himself.
  • edited January 12
    Ze said: __ A Man can Help It___ it's called Discipline__________I absolutely agree.
    This isn't about me though, it's about life goings on, it's realities, whit men and women are doing, etc.
    I can see what was said, etc. But this ain't usually the way it goes down. Of course the man can be self disciplined, but usually he's not. Ya'll women got dat power of persuasion, which often works very well. btw. I knew you'd agree. QQ... I see all dat fine power you got... Gfb rollin' ova hea... gone...[/quote]

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    Gfb, I suspect you'd preferred a woman that showed discipline in her ways. I really can't see any man (that truly cares) for a woman, comfortable with her F'ing around with every dude that simply looks good or has some swagger about himself.
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    Yet, this isn't about me, it' about what many folks are actually doing out here in this freaky azz world, just for sexual pleasure, etc. as a single man, in my view what a woman does, etc. is nothing new. there are many self disciplined men and women out hea! But then you got them freaks. and dems da one I wtite about! That shyt btw, just ain't shown in porn, etc. It's going on in many bedrooms, motel, rooms all ova this nation! And da tell da truth about it, there are some women just as you described, doing just what you would think they wouldn't be doing, It's real as hell out hea. This doesn't include err body! Gotta run...
  • Having discipline, for me, my opinion, is part of being a man vs a boy. And I don't mean this in a... typical basic ego type of way but rather looking at the chakra system. The root chakra... the starting point.. is basically "the child". A baby only knows its own wants and needs. As you grow you have to integrate the wants and needs of others until you reach to the point that your own wants fade away into the greater good; from individuality to collective consciousness.

    Being able to put your needs to the side is a skill that you can develop and master. It's just like with fasting. You discipline your body and by taking in less your mind is conditioned to work with less... or balance its consumption, vs. what happens when you constantly over eat and your stomach expands and your mind isn't triggered to feel full until you have eaten way too much.

    So I don't think its a product of being a man, but rather having an appetite that is potentially out of control.

    If a man cannot stop cheating he has a problem that cannot be blamed on his gender but rather his appetite. There are females with the same problem and is part (not all) of the reason words like slut and whore exist. But these are often exaggerations meant to shame women for not having appetite control over their sexuality because men don't want that. So why should women?

    As much as I talk about religion with no shame, the reason I can speak on it with total confidence is because I have something to replace it with. And it is one word.

    BALANCE.

    Most people are out of balance. They turn to many vices and devices to balance themselves. They turn to drugs, religion and spirituality, money, sex, food, exercise, meditation, people, etc. We vote politically to tweak the balance of power between republican and democratic ideologies.

    The problem when you blame something unnatural (unhealthy appetite) on something natural is you justify it to the point where you don't care who it hurts.

    If a man has a woman he should be able to rely on his discipline and self-control so that their relationship is in balance and they're not doing things to hurt each other. This may involve many compromises depending on the compatibility of the person they have chosen. His love for her should be all the motivation he needs to deny his own appetite. If I can fast from food I can fast, even from sex.

    There are "incels" out there who believe they have no choice but don't realize they just suck as humans beings and therefore they want women who don't want them back, instead of choosing women who are more compatible to who they can get and instead of actually having some charisma. But these dudes ain't getting laid at all. So compared to that, a dude who "can't help it" (which sounds like a rapist to me), would appear unnaturally greedy.
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    Having discipline, for me, my opinion, is part of being a man vs a boy. And I don't mean this in a... typical basic ego type of way but rather looking at the chakra system. The root chakra... the starting point.. is basically "the child". A baby only knows its own wants and needs. As you grow you have to integrate the wants and needs of others until you reach to the point that your own wants fade away into the greater good; from individuality to collective consciousness.

    Being able to put your needs to the side is a skill that you can develop and master. It's just like with fasting. You discipline your body and by taking in less your mind is conditioned to work with less... or balance its consumption, vs. what happens when you constantly over eat and your stomach expands and your mind isn't triggered to feel full until you have eaten way too much.

    So I don't think its a product of being a man, but rather having an appetite that is potentially out of control.

    If a man cannot stop cheating he has a problem that cannot be blamed on his gender but rather his appetite. There are females with the same problem and is part (not all) of the reason words like slut and whore exist. But these are often exaggerations meant to shame women for not having appetite control over their sexuality because men don't want that. So why should women?

    As much as I talk about religion with no shame, the reason I can speak on it with total confidence is because I have something to replace it with. And it is one word.

    BALANCE.

    Most people are out of balance. They turn to many vices and devices to balance themselves. They turn to drugs, religion and spirituality, money, sex, food, exercise, meditation, people, etc. We vote politically to tweak the balance of power between republican and democratic ideologies.

    The problem when you blame something unnatural (unhealthy appetite) on something natural is you justify it to the point where you don't care who it hurts.

    If a man has a woman he should be able to rely on his discipline and self-control so that their relationship is in balance and they're not doing things to hurt each other. This may involve many compromises depending on the compatibility of the person they have chosen. His love for her should be all the motivation he needs to deny his own appetite. If I can fast from food I can fast, even from sex.

    There are "incels" out there who believe they have no choice but don't realize they just suck as humans beings and therefore they want women who don't want them back, instead of choosing women who are more compatible to who they can get and instead of actually having some charisma. But these dudes ain't getting laid at all. So compared to that, a dude who "can't help it" (which sounds like a rapist to me), would appear unnaturally greedy.

    Choice words, Kemosabe. ^^^^^5!!! I'd never, ever get the chance to use them. Quick Draw Kat would have blasted my balls and joint up to the ceiling and through the roof...and then my head with it before or just before I bled-out. This I know, fo'sho. Just think of a chick from Puerto Rico, and an Apache on the warpath out for hair...and your sack...below. Hell YEAH I want my dick and balls, don'tchu wanna keep your own? Fuck yeah! I'm crazy, but not completely insane. Plus, I kinda like having some bass in my voice, and not squeaking like Tweety Bird like "help grammy help...help grammy...heeeeeelp!".
  • Is yo significant other snoopin' through yo phone?
  • Can't disagree with a single post in this thread.
    And I say that as someone who lived pretty much every scenario cited.
    For me, monogamy was hard as hell. Mind yall, I was married to someone, who at the time, was everything I wanted in a wife. EVERYTHING!!! Still, the call of sex with a different woman, i.e. "new pussy", won out.
    Ultimately, it ended my marriage.
    I beat myself up for years afterwards. I eventually came to understand that while I can admire & respect marriage and the monogamous lifestyle, (and I do) it simply isn't for me.
    I had to accept that that doesn't make me a bad person, or a not a "good man".
    Guess who sat me down and told me to "Stop beating yourself up for failing at trying to be something you're not"? My good friend, who just so happens to be my EX_WIFE of soon to be 18 years.
    Life can be funny like that.
    Oh! Getting back to the original topic of snooping: Yep, it was the old extra pager ( it was the 90's lol) that took ya boy down.
    I used to hide it in the spare tire compartment of the trunk of my car. Sure as shit, her car was in the shop, and she took mine to go grocery shopping. Heard it going off while loading groceries into the trunk. In the words of the immortal Homer Simpson "Doh!"

  • @Tricepps
    This is interesting. Although you were wrong and I should be siding with your ex-wife, I find myself empathizing with you; like I'm sorry you got caught.

    Truth is, I think our society sets us up because our expectations are often driven by the expectations of our society. Many animals connect with each other for the purpose of having children. We take these natural instincts and then we start adding rules and concepts of ownership. But how many of us are still married to the same woman we had children with? And now since I'm done having children the idea of marriage is more so just for the sake of my girlfriend and her peace of mind. I don't really find meaning in it anymore as an institution. I respect it but only as a social contract between 2 people. And yes, its not for everyone because I don't think everyone needs to agree or have the same social contract.

    Some people are poly amorous. Some people have multiple wives. Up until not so long ago it was social damnation for a person to be homosexual. Now it's normal and everyone else has had to accept being wrong about it and accept not judging something that the people involved are happy with. Happiness... It's like we've forgotten what life is about. We are often unhappy trying to follow the path of what we've been taught and socialized into believing is normal and right. But just because its right for someone else doesn't mean its right for you.

    So why not join or create new communities with new social contracts? I think only then can we really have a world were everyone can be happy. And if a certain lifestyle doesn't agree with you, you don't have to agree with it. It's like having different TV channels. Everyone needs to change the channel until they find one that appeals to them. But trying to force everyone to watch the same channel... that's not fair or right.

    These communities exist; communities where you can be your natural self without hurting anyone.
  • Tricepps wrote: »
    Can't disagree with a single post in this thread.
    And I say that as someone who lived pretty much every scenario cited.
    For me, monogamy was hard as hell. Mind yall, I was married to someone, who at the time, was everything I wanted in a wife. EVERYTHING!!! Still, the call of sex with a different woman, i.e. "new pussy", won out.
    Ultimately, it ended my marriage.
    I beat myself up for years afterwards. I eventually came to understand that while I can admire & respect marriage and the monogamous lifestyle, (and I do) it simply isn't for me.
    I had to accept that that doesn't make me a bad person, or a not a "good man".
    Guess who sat me down and told me to "Stop beating yourself up for failing at trying to be something you're not"? My good friend, who just so happens to be my EX_WIFE of soon to be 18 years.
    Life can be funny like that.
    Oh! Getting back to the original topic of snooping: Yep, it was the old extra pager ( it was the 90's lol) that took ya boy down.
    I used to hide it in the spare tire compartment of the trunk of my car. Sure as shit, her car was in the shop, and she took mine to go grocery shopping. Heard it going off while loading groceries into the trunk. In the words of the immortal Homer Simpson "Doh!"


    Man, Life can be that way sometimes, etc. A lot of us have been in dat same scenario, etc. That is, back in those days...
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    @Tricepps
    This is interesting. Although you were wrong and I should be siding with your ex-wife, I find myself empathizing with you; like I'm sorry you got caught.

    Truth is, I think our society sets us up because our expectations are often driven by the expectations of our society. Many animals connect with each other for the purpose of having children. We take these natural instincts and then we start adding rules and concepts of ownership. But how many of us are still married to the same woman we had children with? And now since I'm done having children the idea of marriage is more so just for the sake of my girlfriend and her peace of mind. I don't really find meaning in it anymore as an institution. I respect it but only as a social contract between 2 people. And yes, its not for everyone because I don't think everyone needs to agree or have the same social contract.

    Some people are poly amorous. Some people have multiple wives. Up until not so long ago it was social damnation for a person to be homosexual. Now it's normal and everyone else has had to accept being wrong about it and accept not judging something that the people involved are happy with. Happiness... It's like we've forgotten what life is about. We are often unhappy trying to follow the path of what we've been taught and socialized into believing is normal and right. But just because its right for someone else doesn't mean its right for you.

    So why not join or create new communities with new social contracts? I think only then can we really have a world were everyone can be happy. And if a certain lifestyle doesn't agree with you, you don't have to agree with it. It's like having different TV channels. Everyone needs to change the channel until they find one that appeals to them. But trying to force everyone to watch the same channel... that's not fair or right.

    These communities exist; communities where you can be your natural self without hurting anyone.

    AWESOME Post, ZealotX
    You said sooo many things I've said before, about society placing rules on natural human behavior.
    Religion is the biggest culprit, IMO. But as cited, some religions allow a man multiple wives. Although, for the life of me, I can't see why he'd want more than one. (Humor) In my prior job, I had a female partner. She and her common law husband were part of what I came to learn, is a big & active Black swingers scene in Chicago. Working together for 5 years, we had no secrets from one each other.
    Listening to her talk about the goings on at the swinger house, I knew I could never do it.
    Plainly put, as secure as I like to think I am, I know I could never watch my woman have sex with another man. I just couldn't.
    She told me, it was common for her guy to pick out a man in the place, and ask her to have sex with him, while he ( her man) watched.
    Though I couldn't wrap my head around the concept, it worked for them. To me, that's all that matters: That the relationship works for a particular couple.
  • Yo, Tone: Did we know each other that this time"

    "She told me, it was common for her guy to pick out a man in the place, and ask her to have sex with him, while he ( her man) watched.".

    Were you and I acquainted at ^that^ that time?

    Tone...Tone...Tone...zcd2ujpkasl4.gif
  • Yep, we did :D
    You've known me prolly 20ish years now?
    She and I were partners 2012 -2017.
    Bruh, you think you're an open-minded, progressive dude...right up til the prospect of another man doing your woman, IN FRONT YOU, no less, is presented.
    That's when you realize just how much "old fashion" is still in you.
  • Tricepps wrote: »
    Yep, we did :D
    You've known me prolly 20ish years now?
    She and I were partners 2012 -2017.
    Bruh, you think you're an open-minded, progressive dude...right up til the prospect of another man doing your woman, IN FRONT YOU, no less, is presented.
    That's when you realize just how much "old fashion" is still in you.

    Man oh man! How time flies!!! WHEW!
    Nuh uh. No Lordy. I am not THAT liberal. Like Hall & Oates called it and sang it: I CAN"T Go For THAT!
    Either way it's fucked up.
    If she holla's louder w/him...there goes Mr Ego..and your Temper! And, jail or prison possibilities.
    If she doesn't and complains...it was all for Nothing! Fucked up either way.
    Gonna be around today? If so...
    Greg.
  • Tone...

    And while we're on it, do you think we; and others that were in the old crew, how about those days in review? Should we; you and I, give up the other names, dates, places, and all the backdoor dirt that took place during those 20-years? I think it would kinda fun and interesting, don't you? However and if so, best I mention I wasn't married and kiddy'ed up. Oops! Forgot. Had the girls, just no spouse, initially. Hey! I'll tell you what!
    Lets eat cheese on JP! Rat him O...U...T...like BIG TIME. Dee would be all over his ass in Divorce Court!
    He lives closer to YOU, than me. He'll be blowing up YOUR doorbell all up...
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  • strAightalk1strAightalk1 AUGUSTA, GEORGIA


    I really can't SEE any man (that truly cares) for a woman, comfortable with her F'ing around with every dude that simply looks good or has some swagger about himself.



  • I really can't SEE any man (that truly cares) for a woman, comfortable with her F'ing around with every dude that simply looks good or has some swagger about himself.

    Do Queers just come from Augusta Georgia? Or should we call them booty shakers! LMBAO ova hea!
  • Tricepps wrote: »
    Can't disagree with a single post in this thread.
    And I say that as someone who lived pretty much every scenario cited.
    For me, monogamy was hard as hell. Mind yall, I was married to someone, who at the time, was everything I wanted in a wife. EVERYTHING!!! Still, the call of sex with a different woman, i.e. "new pussy", won out.
    Ultimately, it ended my marriage.
    I beat myself up for years afterwards. I eventually came to understand that while I can admire & respect marriage and the monogamous lifestyle, (and I do) it simply isn't for me.
    I had to accept that that doesn't make me a bad person, or a not a "good man".
    Guess who sat me down and told me to "Stop beating yourself up for failing at trying to be something you're not"? My good friend, who just so happens to be my EX_WIFE of soon to be 18 years.
    Life can be funny like that.
    Oh! Getting back to the original topic of snooping: Yep, it was the old extra pager ( it was the 90's lol) that took ya boy down.
    I used to hide it in the spare tire compartment of the trunk of my car. Sure as shit, her car was in the shop, and she took mine to go grocery shopping. Heard it going off while loading groceries into the trunk. In the words of the immortal Homer Simpson "Doh!"

    Good Post, so Honest and rather Heartwarming.

    I being a woman __Can Not__ever imagine my man fk'ing another woman right in front of me, let alone me picking the woman out for him to sex___ Aw Hail Naw, infact, your mate picking out someone for you to sex of the opposite sex sounds like a bisexuality move right there. and/or your partner is searching for something in YOU, when you're with another partner.
  • Tricepps wrote: »
    Can't disagree with a single post in this thread.
    And I say that as someone who lived pretty much every scenario cited.
    For me, monogamy was hard as hell. Mind yall, I was married to someone, who at the time, was everything I wanted in a wife. EVERYTHING!!! Still, the call of sex with a different woman, i.e. "new pussy", won out.
    Ultimately, it ended my marriage.
    I beat myself up for years afterwards. I eventually came to understand that while I can admire & respect marriage and the monogamous lifestyle, (and I do) it simply isn't for me.
    I had to accept that that doesn't make me a bad person, or a not a "good man".
    Guess who sat me down and told me to "Stop beating yourself up for failing at trying to be something you're not"? My good friend, who just so happens to be my EX_WIFE of soon to be 18 years.
    Life can be funny like that.
    Oh! Getting back to the original topic of snooping: Yep, it was the old extra pager ( it was the 90's lol) that took ya boy down.
    I used to hide it in the spare tire compartment of the trunk of my car. Sure as shit, her car was in the shop, and she took mine to go grocery shopping. Heard it going off while loading groceries into the trunk. In the words of the immortal Homer Simpson "Doh!"

    Good Post, so Honest and rather Heartwarming.

    I being a woman __Can Not__ever imagine my man fk'ing another woman right in front of me, let alone me picking the woman out for him to sex___ Aw Hail Naw, infact, your mate picking out someone for you to sex of the opposite sex sounds like a bisexuality move right there. and/or your partner is searching for something in YOU, when you're with another partner.

    Are you saying that you've neva been in any one of these sceanarios, and that you neva was almost involved in them. Note I said almost, tempted, etc. QQ... I see you have nebba freaked, etc. Straight shooter huh? Yeah right... You kno most of us have learned from doing or observing, etc. I've done some of both! But not to da extreem, etc. Hell to da nawl... on dat shyt! Btw, such a move doesn't have da be a bisexual move as you've mention. Just like have a threesome doesn't necessarily mean a woman is straight up bisexual either. I see and hea you. Gfb rollin' ova hea.
  • Tone...

    And while we're on it, do you think we; and others that were in the old crew, how about those days in review? Should we; you and I, give up the other names, dates, places, and all the backdoor dirt that took place during those 20-years?

    Nah. We'd best let them sleepin dogs stay sleepin.
    You were there before me, and stayed longer. So, I'm sure you got dirt even I don't know about.
    Remember, I missed the epic "Katnapper" incident. I arrived just as it was ending. Can only imagine the shit that jumped off before then.
    I also remember when I got there, beefs being so heated and personal, that folks were actually contacting peoples' family members in real life, or something like that.
    Dude from Boston, who seemingly everybody despised,( but was cool with me), had the entire board on fire, as I recall. :D
    Shit was just bananas back then.
    It's funny to think that most of those people are now in their early/mid 50's now Wonder how many of them think back on those days, and asked themselves "WHAT THE FUCK WAS I THINKING, BACK THEN?" :D



  • [/quote]Good Post, so Honest and rather Heartwarming.

    I being a woman __Can Not__ever imagine my man fk'ing another woman right in front of me, let alone me picking the woman out for him to sex___ Aw Hail Naw, infact, your mate picking out someone for you to sex of the opposite sex sounds like a bisexuality move right there. and/or your partner is searching for something in YOU, when you're with another partner.[/quote]

    Yep! She did confide in me that she suspected he was bisexual. Because on occasion, when picking out or suggesting a dude for her, he'd mention the size of dude's dick.
    Ordinarily, even the most secure man aint making reference to the size of no other man's dick.
    It's one of those unspoken but very adhered to, MAN CODE things.


  • Tricepps wrote: »
    Tone...

    And while we're on it, do you think we; and others that were in the old crew, how about those days in review? Should we; you and I, give up the other names, dates, places, and all the backdoor dirt that took place during those 20-years?

    Nah. We'd best let them sleepin dogs stay sleepin.
    You were there before me, and stayed longer. So, I'm sure you got dirt even I don't know about.
    Remember, I missed the epic "Katnapper" incident. I arrived just as it was ending. Can only imagine the shit that jumped off before then.
    I also remember when I got there, beefs being so heated and personal, that folks were actually contacting peoples' family members in real life, or something like that.
    Dude from Boston, who seemingly everybody despised,( but was cool with me), had the entire board on fire, as I recall. :D
    Shit was just bananas back then.
    It's funny to think that most of those people are now in their early/mid 50's now Wonder how many of them think back on those days, and asked themselves "WHAT THE FUCK WAS I THINKING, BACK THEN?" :D

    I was just humorously speculating, T. However, those were some Humorous & Dramatic days and moments. Katnapper? The PERFECT example.
    There have been times in these CV-19 days evolved since day-one that I've wondered about the old crew, good or fucked up, and what their status is, say like, these days. This day to nail it down. But then too and if it's filled with bad or worse now, do I REALLY want to know? Yes and No is at a tenuous balance.

  • strAightalk1strAightalk1 AUGUSTA, GEORGIA
    More relationship crap often starts over my Cellphone ... While men do snoop too, most are slow da catch on, to dat shyt


    If I Take LOVE Away He Will GO SEErazY... :'(
  • strAightalk1strAightalk1 AUGUSTA, GEORGIA


    I really can't SEE any man (that truly cares) for a woman, comfortable with her F'ing around with every dude that simply looks good or has some swagger about himself.

    Do Queers just come from Augusta Georgia? Or should we call them booty shakers! LMBAO ova hea!

    A whole lot of them down here - Very SAD.
  • strAightalk1strAightalk1 AUGUSTA, GEORGIA
    Tricepps wrote: »
    Good Post, so Honest and rather Heartwarming.


    Yep! She did confide in me that she suspected he was bisexual. Because on occasion, when picking out or suggesting a dude for her, he'd mention the size of dude's dick.
    Ordinarily, even the most secure man aint making reference to the size of no other man's dick.
    It's one of those unspoken but very adhered to, MAN CODE things.


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    :o
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