She Gave Him a Ultimatum! "he had a choice to make."

Some of these Brutha's & Sistah's have been engaged for too damn long! Heard a Brutha da other day, say that he and dis Sistah he has been shackin' with, been engaged for "Ten" Years! Now des MF's got three kids and still just Engaged! It's not just this one couple when it comes to this long time engagement BS! Whereas they both seem da like just living together making babies, etc. With just a promise when it comes da marriage part . Yet, there is in most states des "Common Law" statutes. In Texas it's like dat. I imagine that there are some engagments older than than their 10 years. Some men and women have lived together for ova 30 years and never was legally married. They children didn't have a clue until the parents passed on. No shyt... I guess when these men and women start living together, somewhere alone da line they actually "forget" to get married! Whutchu think?? Today though, there are some Sistah's giving these young Brutha's a Ultimatum, telling them they need da choose, it's either her or his tired azz friends, as she ain't about da go through dat baby mama, daddy drama, etc. She, "Yo azz got da make a choice!" Him: But, but, baby... Ya'll know da rest of damn story. It is exactly whut it is! Gfb easin' on... later.

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  • edited January 13
    If ____I wanted to get married and have literally told the guy that I want to marry him and he says, "baby I love you, but, I'm not ready for marriage", I wouldn't wait around for __ 10yrs, waiting for him to get ready, I'd be gone. If our relationship is working good, I claim to love him, he claim to love me, why wait years and years before getting married? I think after 3yrs or at the most 5yrs ___we need to come to a decision about our future.
  • If ____I wanted to get married and have literally told the guy that I want to marry him and he says, "baby I love you, but, I'm not ready for marriage", I wouldn't wait around for __ 10yrs, waiting for him to get ready, I'd be gone. If our relationship is working good, I claim to love him, he claim to love me, why wait years and years before getting married? I think after 3yrs or at the most 5yrs ___we need to come to a decision about our future.

    You mean in a year or two! Anything ova a year of engagement is too damn long! Why wait longer? MF' done beat dat choocie up, and just might run! LMBO... If you officially engaged, both ya'll azz is ready for marriage! whutchu say...
  • I'll give our relationship 3yrs before giving him an ultimatum.
  • edited January 13
    I'll give our relationship 3yrs before giving him an ultimatum.

    Seems like den, Gfb got a lil time left. QQ... whutchu rollin' yo eyes for? 3years is longer dan a minute. Shyt....
  • 3yrs in mature people is NOT LONG at all.....those years will run really Fast! You got a few minutes. LMAO
  • 3yrs in mature people is NOT LONG at all.....those years will run really Fast! You got a few minutes. LMAO

    Hell dats all i need da make my mind up! Why it talke others three years is beyond my thinking. I wouldn't require all dem years da make my mind up on you! Or any other woman. We can do this within a few hours, after all it's not like we wouldn't already know each other! Ya feel me? QQ...
  • Well good, long drawn-out engagements can come unraveled. Den what? CTHU
  • Well good, long drawn-out engagements can come unraveled. Den what? CTHU

    I betchu you been in one of the foreva engagements! How long did your last, five or ten years, orare you in one now? Look Gfb ain't made witchu, etc. It's yo thang! Do with it whutchu want da do! Now tell da truth! How long as dis engament been going on? Gfb heading for da door... Say what? How many? QQ... LMBAO! Btw... why U stuttering? Talk up!
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    3yrs tops____ I think it takes at least 1 yr to get to know someone, another year to determine whether the relationship is proving to be beneficial for both of you............if either of you have no issues with marriage _______ by the 3rd year___ the subject of marriage should be seriously talked about.
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    3yrs tops____ I think it takes at least 1 yr to get to know someone, another year to determine whether the relationship is proving to be beneficial for both of you............if either of you have no issues with marriage _______ by the 3rd year___ the subject of marriage should be seriously talked about.

    A few dates, a few drinks, etc. is all it should take da make up yo mind! da hell u need three years for? after that first bed time story, you ought da know if you want da be involved with da man. three years is too damn long. Don't ya think? Gfb QQ... atcha. gotta run...
  • When is a engagement too long?

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    When one of them says "TIME".

    For me 3yrs tops if I wanted to marry the guy.

  • When is a engagement too long?

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    When one of them says "TIME".

    For me 3yrs tops if I wanted to marry the guy.

    Hell in 3 years a lot of lovin' be done happen, a lot of burnt wood done be shared, etc. Gfb QQ... LMBO.. but it's da truth! Btw, by todays fast paced standards 3 years is a long damn time! We can roll faster... enough said... Gfb out...
  • edited April 17
    I hear ya____but, you'd have to hook-up with a woman that see's it your way. I dunno maybe it's the fact that we're growing older, but___ These days 3 yrs run by pretty damn fast. I swear it seems like 365days (1 year) is actually 300 days___Time is flying by extremely fast.
  • edited April 17
    I hear ya____but, you'd have to hook-up with a woman that see's it your way. I dunno maybe it's the fact that we're growing older, but___ These days 3 yrs run by pretty damn fast. I swear it seems like 365days (1 year) is actually 300 days___Time is flying by extremely fast.

    That's what I'm talking about! We gots da git at as soon as we can! Seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, etc. ain't promised! U kno where Gfb is wit dis, etc. I kinda think you'd see it my way... QQ... Time is indeed flying....

  • strAightalk1strAightalk1 AUGUSTA, GEORGIA
    3yrs in mature people is NOT LONG at all.....those years will run really Fast! You got a few minutes. LMAO

    :o
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