The Strip Club... versus adult porn.

Often I have talked to brutha's dat take their women with them to da strip club. And they enjoyed having them with them, etc. But many women claimed that their man won't take them to any strip club! While some women say they wouldn't go anyway! Yet, there are strip "male" clubs that women frequent, etc. And des women do be all up in them! Then there's da porn question, if you are a woman or man, have you ever watched general "adult porn" together? I find that many women are watching "adult porn" with their significant others, spouses, etc. Have any of you? And what's yo take on des two "sexual in nature", adult activities? Would you watch "adult porn" with yo significant other? Gfb QQ...
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  • Not to hijack, but I think a better question is whether strip clubs and porn are exploiting women or are they really exploiting men?
  • I wouldn't use da word exploiting. Grown folks make choices, just as our lives are full of choices! If women are being exploited, then they are with their eyes wide open! Remember that's why both sexes carry dollars into these strip clubs! QQ... Gfb gone...
  • edited February 23
    Back in my hay-day, I use to watch porn with my boyfriend and also when I got married with my husband___and yeah, we tried a few thangs they were doing in the porn. Nowadays there's no need to watch porn, I learnt err'thang! CTFU

    I also attended a Strip Club with my girl's where Men were the strippers, my goodness, those brothers were packing way more than a 'Happy Meal',.. THOSE chicks were 'out of control' in those joints...LMAO

    I Never had a desire to go to a strip club with a man ___where women did the stripping.
  • Back in my hay-day, I use to watch porn with my boyfriend and also when I got married with my husband___and yeah, we tried a few thangs they were doing in the porn. Nowadays there's no need to watch porn, I learnt err'thang! CTFU

    I also attended a Strip Club with my girl's where Men were the strippers, my goodness, those brothers were packing way more than a 'Happy Meal',.. THOSE chicks were 'out of control' in those joints...LMAO

    I Never had a desire to go to a strip club with a man ___where women did the stripping.

    That I can understand. Btw, did you eva put a bill inside one of dem male stripper's pants, shorts, etc. while sliding your hand down across dat pipe? Gfb QQ... tell da truth now? QQ... @ dat Happy Meal quote. I can only envision what you were meaning, etc. And I get it! Thanks for always being straight about da shyt. Life again, is whut it is! Btw, "ya tried a few thangs huh?" Gfb... out.
  • Never had the opportunity to slid any money inside that male thong,,,,too many women fighting for the chance. LOLOLOL
  • edited February 23
    So you say, you were one of them women too! Guess yo azz just wasn't fast enough, or you paid QQ... far to much attention to the outline in dat thong! LMBO ova hea... Gfb rollin'
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    I'm rollin too____ there were a lotta wet pannies after visiting those male strip joints___AND, when one of those brutha's would pick a sista up out her seat and physically grind on that heifer__All the other women would be screaming, encouraging him to keep it going___AND, don't let that dude get a slight erection to his 'Happy Meal', Damn, Damn, Damn,,,, we chicks would be spinning in our seats, horny as all get-out..

    LMMAO, we truly had a blast!!!
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    I'm rollin too____ there were a lotta wet pannies after visiting those male strip joints___AND, when one of those brutha's would pick a sista up out her seat and physically grind on that heifer__All the other women would be screaming, encouraging him to keep it going___AND, don't let that dude get a slight erection to his 'Happy Meal', Damn, Damn, Damn,,,, we chicks would be spinning in our seats, horny as all get-out..

    LMMAO, we truly had a blast!!!

    And I truly believed that you did! Would you do same today? I already kno whutchu gon say. "Hell Nawl!" I guess some things do change with da times... Stay cool woman! You aiight wit me! Later...
  • edited February 24
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    Nawl, I experienced it, loved it____BUT, I also out-grew it (, that was back in my hay-day ). I have NO DESIRE to run up in a Strip Joint for women....wouldn't be caught in one Now!
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    Nawl, I experienced it, loved it____BUT, I also out-grew it (, that was back in my hay-day ). I have NO DESIRE to run up in a Strip Joint for women....wouldn't be caught in one Now!
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    Nawl, I experienced it, loved it____BUT, I also out-grew it (, that was back in my hay-day ). I have NO DESIRE to run up in a Strip Joint for women....wouldn't be caught in one Now!

    Time does bring about a change! Thanks for da straight up, take care. Gfb gone..
  • Damn, you men don't visit dem strip clubs in yo city, town, etc,? And you've neva watched porn with yo woman! I am da assume that you are leading the life of an saint! LMGDAO...
  • How many of you men have taken your woman to a strip club? C'on now... Gfb QQ...
  • I have taken my woman to the strip club before. It's just not as much fun as it is solo because strip clubs cater to the male fantasy. Part of that fantasy is that you can "have" any of the women you see performing. The main purpose of the performance is to sell the lap dance. Leaving your woman sitting there by herself while you get a private lap dance is not a good look so if strippers see a couple they will either assume both are down or stay away as not to waste their time. So having your girl there, even if not intended, is a bit of a "cock block". Even if most women can be okay with their men looking at someone else, many cannot handle the idea of him touching someone else or being touched. Territorial instinct kicks in even though there is literally no threat to the relationship. In most cases, the stripper is only interested in your money. I have had sex with a stripper before (both in and out of the club) so that's why I have to say "most cases".
  • edited April 9

    Honestly I kinda outgrew watching other people bang. Besides - YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW IT ENDS.

    I'm hardly a saint LOLOL but that shit bores me

    The Smithsonian Channel is more interesting to me now 🤣🤣🤣I'm serious.

  • https://blackvisions.org/Community/discussion/comment/2974#Comment_2974
    Honestly I kinda outgrew watching other people bang. Besides - YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW IT ENDS.
    I'm hardly a saint LOLOL but that shit bores me
    The Smithsonian Channel is more interesting to me now 🤣🤣🤣I'm serious.

    Sheeeeeit. So say'eth, Mr. Ratchet, Himself. 0g118u4cf4gm.png

    I now need a bulldozer to get through the bullshit! Just WOW, JP! It's come to THIS now? JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL!
    Followed your ass one-day. I saw you come out the bank with a wheelbarrow full of quarters...saw where you went after that, TOO!
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  • It's not inconceivable that someone can "outgrow" porn. But it's a little bit like someone saying they outgrew alcoholic beverages. No one NEEDS to drink just like no one needs to masturbate or watch sexually provocative material. We don't do these things because we have a particular need. We do it because we want to. And perhaps, to some extent, fueled by our biological chemistry. Sometimes people don't do things because they get enough of an alternative. Sometimes people don't do things because they have been trained to believe they are wrong, dirty, sinful, etc. This can create sexual repression and can lead to sexual frustration and even sexual deviancy. I personally just think a sex life that includes more variety is more healthy; like eating different types of food. And sexual fantasies are like eating desserts. No one needs to engage in fantasy, per se, but life is a lot less boring when you do.
  • ZealotX wrote: »
    It's not inconceivable that someone can "outgrow" porn. But it's a little bit like someone saying they outgrew alcoholic beverages. No one NEEDS to drink just like no one needs to masturbate or watch sexually provocative material. We don't do these things because we have a particular need. We do it because we want to. And perhaps, to some extent, fueled by our biological chemistry. Sometimes people don't do things because they get enough of an alternative. Sometimes people don't do things because they have been trained to believe they are wrong, dirty, sinful, etc. This can create sexual repression and can lead to sexual frustration and even sexual deviancy. I personally just think a sex life that includes more variety is more healthy; like eating different types of food. And sexual fantasies are like eating desserts. No one needs to engage in fantasy, per se, but life is a lot less boring when you do.

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    I dunno about outgrowing the need for porn____however, I've always said MEN in particular that are mesmerized by Porn are MEN that have no sexual imagination of their OWN. They are always looking for some other man's thrill to try out for himself.

    A porn sampler is probably a lousy lover (without) porn tips. Teehee hee hee

  • I know. You know how I/we roll. Rat you out, or cover your lies, I'm always good to go either way. It just depends on my sobriety and/or how high I am on cloud nine. Nobody ever said that winos and pot heads were ALWAYS reliable...and TRUTHFUL. B)
  • @BR...

    " dunno about outgrowing the need for porn____however, I've always said MEN in particular that are mesmerized by Porn are MEN that have no sexual imagination of their OWN. They are always looking for some other man's thrill to try out for himself.

    A porn sampler is probably a lousy lover (without) porn tips. Teehee hee hee".

    Bobo says..."Mind'ya own ghatdamn bidness!".

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    WAAAAHHHAAAHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Indeed I shall. Lol
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    WAAAAHHHAAAHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Indeed I shall. Lol

    Truly BR, I have no clue how this kinda mess gets into my head either?
    I just read things and the next thing I know, BOOM! A visual appears.
    Presto Chango. Then Boom...The Madness Appears.

  • I dunno about outgrowing the need for porn____however, I've always said MEN in particular that are mesmerized by Porn are MEN that have no sexual imagination of their OWN. They are always looking for some other man's thrill to try out for himself.

    A porn sampler is probably a lousy lover (without) porn tips. Teehee hee hee

    You're probably right. I think humans tend to have certain natural specialties based on a dominant sense. If a person's dominant sense (like a dominant hand) is sight/visual sense, then they're going to be more affected by, driven by, etc by what they can see. I'm logical but my dominant sense was always my sight. So visual arts has always been easier for me. Obviously when you pleasure all 5 senses during sex... that is nirvana. But for me, it is much easier to get that from visual fantasy girls with fantasy-type bodies.

  • @Ms BR again.

    " dunno about outgrowing the need for porn____however, I've always said MEN in particular that are mesmerized by Porn are MEN that have no sexual imagination of their OWN. They are always looking for some other man's thrill to try out for himself.
    A porn sampler is probably a lousy lover (without) porn tips. Teehee hee hee".

    Once again. Think of Porn as a jump-start (er). Ever have or in need of one? Even a new model car can have a battery issue. Shit Happens. Porn can work the same way. EITHER way. Her model. His model.
    Think of porn as a kinda fuel or fuel additive.
    Just say you have a vintage Porsche 911 T. A Tweety Bird yellow one, even. Just for farting around on weekends. Maybe, one like this even too:
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    ^ JP's Little Yellow Buzz Bomb^ when he swooped over last summer. He uses the highest octane $$$ can buy. Boy oh BOY! If Dee (his wife) only knew about his shenanigans! Whew! We could bury that muthafucka in a TEA SPOON! Dee ain't no joke.
    However, see the correlation Ms BR? Ain't no thing to put betta whup ass in your gas. Right? Be nice to your Coocher or Pipe Lights. It pays dividends. B)


  • ZealotX wrote: »
    It's not inconceivable that someone can "outgrow" porn. But it's a little bit like someone saying they outgrew alcoholic beverages. No one NEEDS to drink just like no one needs to masturbate or watch sexually provocative material. We don't do these things because we have a particular need. We do it because we want to. And perhaps, to some extent, fueled by our biological chemistry. Sometimes people don't do things because they get enough of an alternative. Sometimes people don't do things because they have been trained to believe they are wrong, dirty, sinful, etc. This can create sexual repression and can lead to sexual frustration and even sexual deviancy. I personally just think a sex life that includes more variety is more healthy; like eating different types of food. And sexual fantasies are like eating desserts. No one needs to engage in fantasy, per se, but life is a lot less boring when you do.

    Question: It is what it is!!!
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    There are men that are obsessed with PORN, those are the one's I'm referring to.

    Certainly there are times when Porn helps to enhance a sexual mood, or even give a___ YOUNG man instructional guidance___However, when a man has been sexually active for EON'S and still have to refer to PORN to assist/excite him, is a man that is probably a lousy lover___ *shrug* or perhaps the man is only turned-on by pornography (that's worse). First of ALL, the woman should give a man the desire to perform sexually admirably __ at least to the point of the __Pleasure Principle that they both can enjoy. A good lover will generally reap greater sexual benefits from their partner.
  • edited April 21
    Gfb QQ... getting ready da knock, knock..Btw, why u puttin' our biziness in da skreets! LMBO... ova hea @ dis porn stuff. We don't need dat! QQ... u kno..
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    I do recall, although it seems like EON's ago, I use to date this guy that was fully engaged in porn, infact, he had his own projector, who know's he (MAY) have secretly made a couple of video's of our sexual sexcapades____ but, that was back in my heyday, we were Young, exploring,,,etc............but, an older more mature man that is PLUGGED into porn on a daily basis ___ something just seems out of sorts to me, he either can't function sexually, or just enjoy's masturbating while watching porn.

    I had this __ Cartoon depicting this farmer, getting up early in the morning to do his farming chores, his chores also included him fuking all the farm animals___ by the end of the day he'd come home to his sexy voluptuous wife waiting to bed him herself___ farmer would fall into bed exhausted from all of his __ ahhhh__ Chores of the day. Lol
  • Remember you've watched porn too! Why do women, any woman watch porn? Does she gain some satisfaction? Btw, do all men that watch porn masturbate while watching porn? Perhaps porn is a sort of relief vale for both genders, etc. You think? Gfb QQ... @ u rollin' ova hea!!! Maybe some of des porn watchers are there da learn new tricks, etc. QQ... MF' might just need sum help gettin' on up! No shyt... Whutchu think... Gfb out!!!
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